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Dilansir dari Sex Info , berikut beberapa jenis orientasi seksual dan definisinya. Androseksual atau androfilia memiliki ketertarikan pada maskulinitas. Androseksual tertarik dengan orang yang memiliki sifat maskulin tanpa memandang gendernya. Menurut Womens Health Mag, istilah ini dibuat untuk menggambarkan ketertarikan berdasarkan siapa orangnya dibandingkan dengan jenis kelamin orangnya. Gineseksual merupakan kebalikan dari androseksual. Gineseksual atau ginefilia adalah orientasi seksual yang memiliki ketertarikan pada femininitas seseorang. Orang dengan gineseksual memandang ketertarikannya tanpa melibatkan jenis kelamin. Aseksual merupakan orang yang tidak tertarik secara seksual dengan siapapun. Orang yang aseksual tidak memiliki keinginan untuk terlibat dalam aktivitas seksual. Biseksual merupakan orientasi seksual yang tertarik pada kedua jenis kelamin. Orang dengan biseksual merasa nyaman berhubungan secara seksual atau romantis dengan kedua jenis kela...

This girl whom now I’m living with, show love in a very unusual way that I never experienced before. It’s been a struggle to adapt with her way of life. She said from the beginning “my words might be harsh, but it’s for a good purpose, I never sugar coating words,”. Most of the time, I don’t live an easy life, so I said to myself “I’ve been worked with a mentally abusive boss, I’ve been bullied during life, and I manage to survive until this day. How hard it would be?” But, It’s little bit hard. There was days I’ve spent crying, being anxious, and blaming myself every time we argued because I always feel attacked and ended up feeling guilty. I feel she didn’t respect me, always force her opinion towards everything, and yelling most of the times. If I only tell you that story, it seems like she is a bad person, right? Matcha Berry In fact, she isn’t. She just being herself and people often get her wrong (including me) because the way she communicate. She is the most hones...

Bukan tanpa alasan dia memilih hal yang menurut khalayak adalah pilihan yang congkak. Sudah lebih dari sepuluh tahun dia menjadi pihak yang diremehkan, negative memang bila terlihat dari luar. Mungkin hanya dia yang memahami hal tersebut atau mungkin saja ada lagi tetapi tidak berbaur dengannya. Dia mengasihani diri. Terlepas dari ketidakpastian akan seperti apa perjalanan diri yang terlekat dibenaknya, mari kita kupas hal lain yang belum semuanya tahu. Pernah kalian menjadi pusat perhatian? Sepanjang hidupnya dia selalu menjadi pusat, yang padahal dia sendiri tidak menginginkannya. Kata mereka hal yang dia lakukan berbeda dan asing, dia selalu terlihat memiliki super power yang orang lain tidak memilikinya, maka dari itu dia selalu jadi pusat tanpa dia rencanakan. Dia hanya menjadi dirinya dan mencari kenyamanan untuk dirinya dari segala sisi, entah itu  standard  atau yang  extreme  sekalipun dia akan pilih asalkan dia  enjoy . Bagaimana? Setuju dengan jalan...

“ Ternyata manusia ini memang tidak layak tersenyum, karena manusia ini bodoh. Kenapa menganggap rasa simpati yang diberikan untuk yang dahulu akan membuat masa depannya baik-baik saja. Manusia ini baru tersadar setelah semua yang dilalui perlahan menipis hilang karena simpati tadi. Manusia ini merasa tidak bersalah ah, padahal manusia ini terlampau batas. Tidak boleh. Manusia ini boleh dicambuk biar merasakan bagaimana rasanya masuk kedalam sumur tanpa oksigen. Beritahu semesta bahwa manusia ini bodoh. Manusia ini meminta maaf. Lagi. “ - barenberry. 

Given my general cockiness, as is common in teenagers around that age, and my gross misunderstanding of the world and problems yet to come, I couldn’t fathom why she needed to write down a small list of 5 to 20 items. “Why do you need a grocery list, mom? Why can’t you just remember it. MOM? I wouldn’t need a grocery list.” And that’s the thing. I didn’t need a grocery list. Once I was able to drive, she frequently sent me out to test my grocery-remembering talents. I specifically remember one time when I went shopping for myself — without a list, of course — and I couldn’t remember the first fucking thing I needed to buy. I was at the Superindo in Griya Bukit Jaya, Bogor. I wandered probably 3 different aisles, then in whichever aisle I was currently at, I stopped, took out my phone and texted my mom: “Mom, I do understand now why we have to using grocery lists. Now I get it.” I had so much going on in my mind that I couldn’t remember what to buy. Amongst the...

  How much time do you spend judging others? I would love to be able to sit here and write that I am such a wonderful, open, loving person that I don't judge anyone, but that's just not the case. I judge. And I mean  judge . And I hate it. It's one thing I do much more often than I should and it's one thing that ultimately causes a great deal of unhappiness within me. I judge others' clothing. I judge others' actions. I judge others' words. I know we all do this to some extent and I also know that it relates completely to how we feel about ourselves. If you are 100% happy with who you are, you are a lot less likely to feel the need to judge others. Though I'm becoming a lot more comfortable with who I am and, therefore, judging others less (yas!), I still have a long way to go until I am self-assured enough not to cast a downward glance at others.       I've been thinking a lot about this, and I've realized that judgment is someth...

 HAHAHAHAHAHA. No, seriously 😂 You are? Hiring used to take 2 days, now it takes 2 months. Great candidates are turning down your jobs because hiring is a nightmare and no one can make a frigging decision. People used the be ‘teachable’ and ‘trainable’ now they need to be ready to ‘hit the ground running.’ People are not perfect. They never have been. So STOP looking for PERFECT and Accept the fact that humans are messy, crazy, smart, funny, ambitious, shy, inspired, doers, followers, tech savvy, backward, troubled, scared, fabulous and imperfect in every way. Job ads never say “the perfect candidate will be able to work 20 hours a day for the pure satisfaction of being held in high esteem and willing to manage their super, hands-on, narcissistic boss with a smile on their face.”   When in actuality that’s what they are looking for. There is NO perfect. Let’s hire smart, funny, ambitious, messy, troubled, fabulous people because they are PEOPLE. Capable, qua...